First you start with your family name or the last name of the person you want to find. If it is a person that you think might be family but you dont know their last name it is good to talk to school friends of your parent or parents. Alot of the time school friends can remember who went with who in high school and alot of what happened. If this doesnt help you and you dont mind being more specific you can email me at bgmsanders@aol.com and I will see if I can help you. Barbara